07 Apr Shadow Girl and The Author
There is something very special about the relationships between grandparents and grandchildren. From the moment Bop and I learned that Mike and Christine were expecting their first child almost nine years ago, life changed in wonderful ways. Rowan was born, and then, a few years later, Eden was born. Bop and I love our grandparent names. We also have several different names for Rowan and Eden. Eden is sometimes called “Shadow Girl,” and Rowan is sometimes called “The Author”.
These unique names come from everyday experiences. From the time Eden started walking, she has been fascinated with following Bop. She walks so close behind him that I worry he won’t see or hear her. So, whenever she follows along behind him, I say, “Shadow, shadow.” Bop knows to be careful and alert that his shadow is with him as he walks from one room to another.
Rowan has become an excellent reader and writer. He knows that I’m an author and he likes to create stories, too. Rowan enjoys technology class at school. At our home, he enjoys using my computer to type out stories and then print them. Bop and I tell him that he is a great author. He’s also wonderful at art. His drawings show a creative side that amazes everyone.
Recently, Rowan and Eden were sitting at the dining room table. Rowan was drawing, and Eden was coloring. They decided to take a break and have a snack. Eden asked Bop to bring her a cupcake. Bop replied that she knew where the cupcakes were stored, and she could get a bowl and a cupcake for herself.
She smiled that precious smile that melts Bop’s heart. He walked to the kitchen and found a pink bowl and a cupcake for Eden. She sat on the couch.
Eden looked at me and proclaimed, “Bop will do anything for me because I’m his shadow girl.”
Now, how could we resist her request for a treat when she spoke the truth? Precious girl.
Rowan knows where the bowl of candy bars is kept. He is old enough now that he doesn’t ask for a treat. He walks to the cabinet and finds what he wants to eat. Yes, the author needs nourishment even if it’s a chocolate candy bar. We are so proud of him for saying “thank you”.
These sweet grandkids teach us lessons every day. Love each other, share your treats, use your manners, and remember to look out for one another. God is good. Bop and I are blessed.
Thank you for reading and commenting. The winner from the last blog post contest is Katherine Pasour. I’ll be mailing your copy of “Licky the Lizard”.
Blessings,
Mimi aka Melissa Henderson
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Jessica Brodie
Posted at 16:33h, 07 AprilI love your reflections about your grandkids and see SO many spiritual moments in them! They remind me to always look for the beauty in the everyday. You are a blessing, Melissa!
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 17:01h, 07 AprilThank you dear friend. You are such a great encouragement. God bless you. Have a blessed week! 🙂
June Foster
Posted at 17:22h, 07 AprilSuch a sweet post. I’m sure Eden and Rowan’s parents enjoy reading these stories.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 17:23h, 07 AprilThank you sweet June. I appreciate your faithfulness at reading and commenting on my blog posts. Yes, Mike and Christine enjoy reading about Rowan and Eden. 🙂 Have a blessed week! 🙂
Colleen Miraglia Arnold
Posted at 17:23h, 07 AprilI learn sweet lessons from my four-year-old grandson every day. I wish we could all see the world through the innocent, generous, compassionate eyes of children!
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 12:05h, 10 AprilThank you for reading and commenting. Yes, the world would be a better place if we saw things from the innocent, generous, and compassionate eyes of children. Have a blessed weekend! 🙂
Kimberly Rose Johnson
Posted at 17:55h, 07 AprilI love reading your grandchild musings and the life lessons learned. Thanks for being an inspiration.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 19:40h, 07 AprilThank you so much Kimberly. Rowan and Eden teach us lessons every day. Have a blessed week! 🙂
Dianne M Miley
Posted at 19:31h, 07 AprilSo sweet.
Congratulations, Katherine Pasour! I didn’t know you were following Melissa too. She is a dear friend. 🙂
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 19:41h, 07 AprilThank you Dianne. Katherine and I met years ago at a writers conference. I’m blessed to have both of you as friends. 🙂 Have a blessed week! 🙂
Nancy Ruegg
Posted at 22:07h, 07 AprilSo enjoyed these snippets of life with your grandchildren, Melissa. They ARE such glorious fun! ‘Love that nickname for Eden–Shadow Girl. It’s a great nickname for those of us (females) who follow Christ! May we follow his ways as close as a shadow, encouraged by the promise he’ll do anything for us too, as long as it’s for our good (Romans 8:28).
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 22:57h, 07 AprilThank you. Amen. Yes, I pray we follow Christ as close as a shadow and find encouragement and His love. Have a blessed week Nancy! 🙂
Diana Derringer
Posted at 12:22h, 08 AprilEnjoy these special days!
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 12:36h, 08 AprilThank you for reading and commenting. Yes, these are special days. Have a blessed week! 🙂
Yvonne Morgan
Posted at 15:11h, 08 AprilI love the names you have for each other. They are so special. Grandchildren do change our lives in so many ways and they are such a blessing. Thanks for sharing Melissa
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 11:33h, 09 AprilThank you Yvonne. We are blessed with our biological grandkids and the neighborhood kids, too. 🙂 Have a blessed week!
Lynn J Simpson
Posted at 19:19h, 08 AprilIt was lovely to read more about your grandchildren, Melissa. It sure is a blessing to have grandchildren. When they live close & visit often, it is an amplified blessing! My oldest grandchild is graduating high school this year! The time flies for sure. And I’m grateful that I was able to spend a lot of time with her during her childhood years, too.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 11:34h, 09 AprilThank you Lynn. Yes, time flies. Bop and I are grateful for the times we share with Rowan and Eden. Have a blessed week! 🙂
Gail Johnson
Posted at 19:33h, 08 AprilAww. So sweet! Those grands must be growing like weeds. Precious days. Lovely post, Melissa.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 11:35h, 09 AprilThank you Gail. Rowan and Eden are growing so fast. Yes, precious days and exhausting days. We’re exhausted from all the laughter. 🙂 Have a blessed week!
Katherine Pasour
Posted at 01:04h, 09 AprilI always love your posts that focus on your grandchildren. Mine are precious to me, and like yours, they teach me wonderful lessons. I so excited to have won Licky the Lizard. I know my grandchildren will enjoy it. Thank you, Melissa.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 11:36h, 09 AprilThank you for your encouraging words Katherine. Yes, Bop and I learn great lessons from Rowan and Eden. I’ll be mailing the book to you this week. I’ll keep you updated. Have a blessed week! 🙂
Barbara Harper
Posted at 20:44h, 11 AprilI love how the nicknames came about. I love it, too, when my grown kids and grandson come over and make themselves at home, raiding the pantry for snacks.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 14:35h, 12 AprilThank you for reading and commenting. Yes, Bop went to the grocery store recently and when we checked out, he told the cashier that all the items were for the grandkids. hahaha! Have a blessed weekend! 🙂
karentfriday
Posted at 13:36h, 12 AprilAwe, Melissa. I love this article so much. How precious Eden called herself Pop’s shadow girl. And Rowan definitely is an author. You and Bop are blessed.
Melissa G. Henderson
Posted at 14:36h, 12 AprilThank you Karen. Yes, we are filled with joy. Those two kids truly bless us every day. Have a blessed weekend. 🙂
Karen Jurgens Harrison
Posted at 15:32h, 14 AprilSo sweet—I love the nicknames. My dad also nicknamed my daughters. Meg was Betty Boop, and Cait was Crumb-snatcher. They loved sharing those sweet times together when he would address them by their special names. Enjoy your precious days with your darling grandchildren. xo